Anil, The Yogi has tagged me. He wants me to write about my idea of a perfect lover. I will try to do my best.
Rules of the game are …
1. The tagged victim has to come up with 8 different points of their perfect lover.
2. Need to mention the sex of the target.
3. Tag 8 victims to join this game & leave a comment on their comments saying they’ve been tagged.
4. If tagged the 2nd time, there’s no need to post again.
Sex of the target :
Male:
PERFECT LOVER:
1. He MUST have the ability to SEE the INNER BEAUTY of not only mine but of other persons too. If he can’t fathom the innermost beauty of a person, then he is as good as a walking and talking corpse, without any soul. If external beauty is so important, then Angelina Jolies, Kate Winslets, Marlin Monroes, Aishwarya Rais of this world would have NEVER accosted a philandering partner and felt heartbreaks. Their beauty should have sufficed for everything.
2. He should be self respecting, and doesn’t confuse it with being an EGOIST. You see there is a HUGE difference between the two.
3. If things go wrong in a relationship, he should have the guts to soul search, instead of taking the easy way out such as having another beautiful / ugly diversions. The channel of communication should always be open. Most of the guys find that VERY BORING.
4. He should be sensitive enough to understand things from other’s point of view too, and sensible enough to view things objectively.
5. He should have a positive disposition towards life.
6. He should be a romantic, and shouldn’t always discuss practical things with me.
7. He should be able to know how to woo me and cherish me.
8. He shouldn’t be manipulative. I can’t tolerate manipulative and calculative persons.
Now its your turn:-)
1. Sidharth: This time you are the topmost in my tagline.
2. Tony: Another blogger to prompt me on and often to write some new post on my blog. Its your turn now. 🙂
3. Ganga: You always bother to read whatever I write.
4. Ritu Harish: I am eagerly waiting to see what you are going to write about your perfect lover.
5. Beautiful Life: I always enjoyed reading your post. Though your frequency is as good as mine.
6. Manish: Seeing your active bloglife and faithful following (I’m one myself), I hope you are not already tagged for this.
7. Utkarsh: I am very curious to know your opinion on this. Afterall you come from my city. 🙂
8. Amit: I APOLOIZE for writing in English. Pardon me for this. But please give us your opinion in Hindi.
Alkajee.. IF tagged a second time , I may not post again.. people actually found my post to this tag really interesting.. read it here and you are the thrid person who tagged me on this. But thanks anyway. And I know you must be really busy this days and i understand, but I really get concered when some bloggers just vanishes in thin cyber-air leavig behind just a blog. LOL.. anything is possible right??
Oh Alka, this is a tough one! I am not expressive as you are. You have very eloquently exprssed your definition, but how would I!!!!
Nevertheless, I will try 🙂
Alka :
You have thought very deeply about what hyour other half should be like. and I must confess, till now, I have not read such a brilliant requirement by any other blogger I have read till date.
Beautiful.You have a very realistic and very apt requirement.
Whole-heardtely wish you the best wishes for you to get your PL.
-ATG
He MUST have the ability to SEE the INNER BEAUTY of not only mine but of other persons too.….Wow..I liked dis point verymuch..
And I felt this tag interesting really..
And you can find my post on perfect lover at
perfect lover
I’ve done this a couple of days ago..But just now i included your name too..in my post…
Alka, do you think that such a guy who fulfils all the criteria above, exists?? :).. if you find him, do introduce me to him. I’ll first make sure I am not hallucinating 🙂
BTW my stats showed your page linking to mine, but cant see it here :p
that same can be reversed & asked for a gal as well!! 😉
I think that there are all kinds of people in this world, the very human nature is so dynamic, no two people can be similar. I think we should look for a partner that is unlike us, ah well, I think I’ll post that stuff on my blog since Alka as tagged me as well!! 🙂
I would like to do this.
Just give me some time as I am traveling right now. (BTW you know the frequency of my posts 😀 One more thing I’m thinking to change it, will blog more).
btw, I can do this in English much better than in Hindi, but well, it’ll be a challenge to find the right & equivalent words in Hindi since I don’t have an English-Hindi dictionary!! 😉
Amit, you see, because of the basic inherent differences between a man’s and a woman’s mental makeup, there are lot of things that are (believe me) quite rare in men. 🙂
For eg. a guy who has self respect and dignity but does NOT confuse it with ego. Another – guys are so totally incommunicative.. it exasperates one to have to draw out a person’s inntermost feelings each time, because they never come out on their own. For guys, being incommunicado is the default answer to all problems it seems. :p
But mainly even if the guy possesses the above 2 qualities, being romantic, sensitive, non-manipulative on top of those 2 is like – well, he must be god then! :).
Tony, I am not actively active in the blog world but passively active. :-)Sorry for being late in tagging you.
Manish, Kya baat karate ho? Tum aur expressive nahi ho? I can’t buy that.
Anil, only you find my views practical.:-)Others are bashing me to no end. :-)By the way, you know someone like this?
your 6th point is really smart and sexy.. its fun to be romantic. but discussing simple things might jun ruin the fun. I was wondering about ur comment at my blog. Perhaps it was ur first visit. Still u were about to tag me? Now, thats sweeet, though strange :)) thx buddy!
Ganga I read your post on this. :-)I LIKED the first and second one very much.
Amit, Twilight Fairy see we are talking about “Perfect” lover. So maybe what I wrote maybe find in God only. I agree. 🙂
Beautiful Life, Whenever you write on this just let me know. And it would be nice if you increase the frequency of your posts. Look who’s talking!!!! 🙂
I don’t think I’m the god!! 😉 :p
Alka, Twilight Fairy, I don’t think that what Alka wrote is something that can’t be found!! 🙂
my reply is now live & kicking!! 🙂
I posted a reply here.
Hey Alka, nice to know about your PL, I mean Perfect Lover not Project Leader or something.
He should be able to know how to woo me and cherish me.
Tell me tell me how it could be done 😉
yeah, I’d be interested in knowing that too!! 😉
Amit, your post is really alive and kicking 🙂
Beautiful Life THANKS for writing the post. I liked it a lot. you have a loyal fan following.
Tarun, Amit you naughty boys!!!And you both want to know? Wow! I am flattered! :-)But you both have to find out yourself. I am not going to tell :-)A bit of mystery is always good. 🙂
boys are known to be naughty, if one isn’t then people doubt him being a boy!! 😉 :p
I dunno about Tarun but I’m not psychic you know!! 😉
on one hand girls say that the boy should trat them well, do things that please them & on the other hand they are non-cooperative when it comes to telling the boys what actually they think & want!! no wonder that understanding a girl is the toughest thing in the world, no documentation or manual at all!! the creator should be sued for not providing any after production(not sale) support!! 😉 c’mon, give us some gyan!! 🙂
Amit, sahi farmaya aapne. Even Brahmaji ne bhi Naari Jati ke baare mei kaha hai, “Neti! Neti!”
matlab yaha unka gayan bhi simit ho jata hai.
yeah, that’s right!! 😀 😆
alka – if you get all these attributes, let me know I will turn gay and marry this chap. Will also hire a security agency to keep you gals off him.
Ashish Singh I already said that we are discussing the qualities of a “perfect” partner which doesn’t exists. :-)Please leave the link of your blog too.