1. You will always be expected to understand things and never be allowed to show emotions. If you insist on exhibiting them, it will be to guys like water on duck’s back.
2. No wooing period for you. People will straight away get down to practical matters. Nothing will be offered to you on a platter. For smallest of things or what is your due, you have to fight tooth and nail.
3. Taking you for granted is guys’ birthright. Guys will never cherish you and don’t take a stand for you. They will not feel protective or have possessive bone for you. You have to fight every battle of yours alone.
4. When all the other avenues of playing will be exhausted, only then you will be remembered.
5. It will be understandable that you can always lick your wounds in silence and with dignity. No one will come to enquire about how you are coping.
6. It will be told hundredth times to you, you are not “that� type of girl wallowing in jealously.
7. You will never need sweet nothings two lines at odd times, tender moments, movies and romantic outings. You are the saner one. You are expected to behave.
8. Your hurts and heartbreaks will never be acknowledged. Making up for the past hurts is not for you! Even explaining to you is soooo boring. Yawn! Yawn! Yawn!
9. Two hoots for your inner beauty! Who needs that?
10. No flowers, cards, poems, chocolates or surprise gifts for you. They are reserved for your vivacious, sexy, flirty and attractive counterparts, who keep the competition hot and alive among the guys. Boys have to stretch themselves extra mile to remain in these gals’ RAM (but we all know it’s volatile.)
really true!! each and every line.
Hi Alka,
why so much venum against men. There are still some humans among them. On a lighter note they all must be bachelors.
(thinks that you just had a fight with your mate)
Well I would say…that these are only half truths 🙂
10th, the last one looks more practical to me….
And the truth will set us free!
There are guys out there….
1) who would sit next to you and listen to you till you run short of words about what you are feeling…
2) who would never stop surprising you with the small packets of happiness they share in those small hello or i miss you calls… in that one flower that he plucked in the morning and kept in his pocket just to give it to you…
3) who would let you live in your independent way… till you need him….
…. could not think of more things as of now… but trust me.. what you have written is just a side of the coin !!!
If it is not the right guy, yes, you are everybit right but it is not always so. Guys don’t always go for looks or the flirty types.
not fair!! u should have said some guys, or even many guys, but not all.
and if a guy loves the girl, I mean really loves, he would care for her, not treat her like a doormat.
it would be wiser to try and understand each guy)and girl) as a unique individual, and nt get swayed by the general perception..hey there are millions of men..how can all be the same? and the woman in my life can certify that!
I’m sure I for one, am not.
When i read the first few lines, i thought to give it a let by, but by the time i reached end, i tend to agree with your last point, in anycase who has the time and space to accomodate puppy love, but your post leaves me wondering whthr this is because of a tiff or because of a complex
Thats y they say that Men r from mars and women from Venus 🙂
7th and 9th. 🙂
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Ohh!!
Great to see you blog again! But why this tirade? I dont think every man is like the ones mentioned, just the way not every woman is ‘the’ sensitive soul!
just wondering if you are going to write a reason for that tirade 🙂
Insane… some boys are different…
blessed r those who r sensitive and sensible
bcoz they will be able to discover the truth
have patience
i can say this bcoz this is the way i describe myself
These characteristics are inherent in 98% of guys. The 2% who don’t appear to be jerks initially show their true colours at a later date! (Yes, I’m bitter! ;-)).