Hymenoplasty

Once I read somewhere, “Professional credibility is like virginity, once you lost it you never get it back.”
But during this disguised Behenjis and Bhai-sahibs era, the author has to think of some other simile. I was reading a leading weekly. As the sun comes out and the darkness has to hide in a corner till the evening returns, same was happening with me.

I often read surveys and different opinion polls. These opinion polls made me accept that India is really changing. I almost believed that today guys don’t care whether their bride /partner is a virgin or not. They proclaim proudly if I can have a past life, so can she! But some anti hero is always out there in one form or another to jolt me out of my reverie. The guys are refusing to grow up. Nothing beats the feeling to be the first!

It’s not one of my wistful thinking, but I chanced upon an article on “Hymenoplasty.” They introduced it something like this, “Hymenoplasty (reconstruction of the hymen) can repair the hymen as if nothing ever occurred.” Wow! Kudos to the ostrich mentality of both the species of this earth.

I thought the guys have reconciled with the fact that what they are getting into. But no, some males savor the conquests! So this surgery to fool them entirely and massaging their ego! Due to them the business of such surgeons are burgeoning.

But these are not the issues. What prompts me to write this post was, do we have to resort to cheating and forgery to establish the foundation of a solid, loving and lifelong relationship? If we place such a high virtue on virginity then why not take hold of our bio-chemical needs? Why fooling around? And if we like what we are doing then why not accept it and be comfortable? What is the need to be a Sati-Savitri, if you can’t be one? But it seems we Indians alone can’t lay claim to the copyright to hypocrisy. We have so many counterparts. The surgeons specializing in hymenoplasty are spread all over the world.

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29 comments

  1. i need to learn this surgery technic for hymenoplasty…….please help me.

  2. my friend need hymenoplasty in egypt,,plz help me get her aid, her marriage is in dec,else her family wil ” honor murder” her

  3. Hi,I perform this operation percisly but sometimes it fails and I can find no reason for it.please mail me your method,its failure rate and its reason if it is possible for you.I would appreciate your kind

  4. Please help me. One of my friends is ina very bad situation. She needs hymenoplasty after she had sex with her bf. He has ditched her and now she is getting married to someone else in june this year. She will be murdered by her husband if he comes to know about it. Please let me know the centres for hymenoplasty in delhi and the operation fees required. Please help….

  5. Although i don’t approve of mentality of those guys who need a proof for something , but due to social reasons it can be a “do or die” situation for the girl. I have a cosmetic & plastic surgery clinic at Agra by the name of Dr Bhagia Plastic Surgery Centre where i do this surgery . Needy people can contact me at satyasarasawat1@yahoo.com.

  6. ABOUT HYMENOPLASTY : I am a french journalist based in Delhi; I am looking for a woman who would accept to speak in front of the camera to tell us about their story and about the choice to do Hymenoplasty. It could be an Hymenoplasty already realised or planned for the futur.
    If you don t want to show your face, we could be hiding it and your voice will be changed so that nobody can recognise you. anyway, this documentary will be broadcast in France only.
    Thanks for your cooperation.
    Leo

  7. Leo, I am not the one who underwent hymenoplasty. You are talking to a wrong person. 🙂

  8. I need to under go this surgery. how much will it cost and is there any side effect. will my parents come to know about it? and please suggest me any proficent doctor in jaipur too. waiting for your reply.

  9. sir i m seema i m 23 years old , i have done sex with my bf , i m warry to think about my married life plz help me

  10. Madam, I am 31 years old and i have done sex., but now my marriage is fix in dec. I need to under go this surgery. how much will it cost and is there any side effect. please suggest me any proficent doctor in Delhi too. waiting for your reply.

  11. Dear sir,
    i am chemist and biology graduate in country of sri lanka.i want learn practice hymenplasty surgery and virginal reconstruction. i am ready pay and practice have opportunity in ur institute ? pls inform me.
    thanks kumara

  12. my question is ? what does it cost. I am writing from turkey. If i restore my hymen my family kill me , please help me there is site i find it from google it is http://www.kizlikzari.us plz compare the rates plz help me

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